Why Kids Need to Face the Real World
We were never told how to fight when we were born. We were told to be nice, to do good deeds — and life seemed good. Until one day, we realized something wasn’t right. The Illusion of a Perfectly Nice World Since childhood, some parents are very nice to their kids. However, sometimes they create a very supportive environment — too supportive — and isolate them. You’re not allowed or sent outside to play or talk with other kids. This isolation creates an illusion in your mind: that your parents being nice means the world is nice, because your parents were the only people you interacted with. They were your whole world... Why Isolation Feels Safe This kind of isolation can be helpful — it protects children from things they shouldn’t see too early, like drugs or violence. But over time, it becomes a dominant trait. The child stops feeling comfortable leaving home — their comfort zone. They are not able to create their boundaries, and it becomes very difficult for them to ...
